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1. Children’s impulsiveness, lack of planning, and lack of concern with
long-term consequences may be largely due to the natural physical development of
the brain. Brains don’t fully mature until about age 25 and the frontal lobes of
the cortex that are responsible for “looking to the future” are among the last
areas to develop. |
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2. Children’s attitudes about themselves and others may
be distorted due to a lack of brain maturity when they are formed. Unfortunately
these attitudes can be self-sustaining. They create expectations, which lead to
self-fulfilling prophecies. For example, children who have had bad early
experiences with math because of lack of brain development may create
self-images that lead them to avoid or give up on math courses even if their
brains are now capable of handling this material. |
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3. Children seem to learn best when given the “right amount
of help” with homework. In effect, just enough to get them past motivation and
understanding barriers. Too much creates dependence and slows growth. Too little
can lead to frustration and confusion. Help with planning and thinking about
long-term consequences may be especially important (see point 1). |
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4. Creativity is enhanced by incubation (time away from the
problem or task) and by shifting perspective (thinking about how someone else
would view the problem). Children’s impulsiveness resulting from immature
frontal lobes may keep them from using these techniques. |
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5. Children and adults are strongly and often unconsciously
influenced by the physical and social environment. Parts of the environment
prime and cue the brain to be in certain states. For example, lying in bed
typically cues sleep. Your child’s environment while doing homework can be
cultivated to cue motivation and concentration. |
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10/24/2008 Copyright (c) D. F. Dansereau & S. H. Evans |
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