Parenting: Parents as People  

 

And children as people.  The tools of the Thinkerer are for people.  Parents might use these tools for themselves.  The tools, after all, are for building life skills. 

Children are building life skills, too.  Parents will sometimes wish that children would build faster. 

Good thing this site is free. 
Nobody could charge for stuff that obvious.

In this venue, we will offer some suggestions on how parents might adapt the Thinkerer tools for use with their children. 

Learning, studying.  The Thinkerer tools for that topic are written for college and adult education students.  High school students could use the materials, but probably will not. 

The skills themselves, however, will benefit students of any age.  Parents may want to rate the child or teen on the Best Practices Clipit and the Study Skills Ratem to identify needed improvements. 

If you identify a needed improvement. STOP THERE.  If you are inclined to tell the child what is wrong and what the child needs to fix, ask yourself what happens when someone tells you what is wrong with you.  Then take a DETOUR to the venues on Teens as People and Preteens as People.   You will find some useful suggestions there.

Team study.  Some pages about studying carry specific suggestions on using the page for team study.  These pages are designed for college students, but may also be useful for teens.  The pages may carry a link called Team Study for Parents.  Such a page will offer specific suggestions for parents to use with preteens.

The people in a child’s head
Teens as people

Preteens as people

Learning, studying
The truth about homework
The Game in Your Head

What they really need to learn: 
Self-starting
The Startalittles
Motivation and Goals

Joblet Joyful
The Canters and the Power of Yet

Motivation:  Shift from Park to Drive

A myth is not a female moth
Children often learn from myths.  Some adults also learn from myths. 

Team Study
Tutors start here
Annoying habits of a Thinkerer

Brain Sprints

Parent's survival guide:
Resilience and the Bounce-Back Routine
Self-Aware
Praise and the Poop Factor
Authority, Can Delegate
Winning with Cuepons
Johnny’s nose job
Your child in a new light
Problem-Solving
Assertive

Other People

The Family that Solves Together Evolves Together

How to make a family policy

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