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Other People
Slogans Hunter's Kit (.pdf) Powers of the Hunter You can practice working with other people in an online virtual environmentl: How to get into Second Life without really trying Selby Evans is Thinkerer Melville in Second Life |
Related Strengths Ambiguity, Can Tolerate Cooperative Compassionate Competitive Follower, Good Friendly Help, Can Ask for Leader, Good Listener, Good Responsible Self-confident Sensitive to Needs of Others Share the Wins of Others |
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You cannot change others without first changing yourself |
Do not think of people as labels. Think of people as people. |
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If you seek the unity of life, do not seek on the mountain top.
Seek in the midst of life. |
The meaning of life is to be human. The quest of life is to understand
what it means for you to be human. |
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Believe those who are seeking the truth. Doubt those who have found it.
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Nobody gives you power. You take power. Or not. Your choice. |
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Your success lies not in satisfying others but in satisfying yourself.
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The language of complaint starts with they. The language of solutions
starts with I. |
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We don’t just learn the rules, we make the rules. |
Who manages what you should do? |
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Success in being a good follower lies in picking the right leader. |
First law of expertise: Never ask a barber if you need a haircut. |
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Everybody's job is nobody's job. |
Don’t try to stand out in the crowd. Stand somewhere else. |
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Never buy the other fellow’s deal. |
You shall be as God, knowing good and evil.–The Serpent. |
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There are no unsuccessful people. Only unsuccessful choices. |
If you don’t choose, who will choose for you? It’s your
choice. |
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No action is taken until someone takes it. |
The only public part of the success story is the last act. |
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In the land of the blind, the one-eyed is king. |
Confidence is the secret passage to authority. |
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Fixers believe they can fix. Complainers believe they can complain.
They are both right. |
Children focus on what they can’t do. Adults focus on what they can do.
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Judge a man by his questions rather than his answers. |
The trick in finding the right answers lies in asking the right
questions. |
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Those who say it can't be done should not interrupt those who are doing
it. |
Who tells you what you should focus on? |
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A good professional is expensive, |
The key to getting people to follow you is to know where you are going.
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The secret to getting cooperation is to think about other people's
goals. |
Boys want to be something. Men want to do something. |
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The race is not to the swiftest. The race is to the ones who know where
they are going. |
Life is not a zero-sum game. |
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Pick your fights. Do not get too much practice at being defeated. |
Keeping it simple is not as simple as you think. |
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The man who smiles when things go bad has just thought of someone he can
blame it on. |
Who’s to blame is a childhood game. |
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Guilt is like a box of chocolates. You can’t pass it around without
tasting it yourself. |
Sure I talk to myself. I like to talk to someone that understands. |
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We wouldn't worry about what people think of us if we knew how seldom
they do. |
Worrying about what others think of you? Why is their judgment better
than yours? |
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Notice other people's moods. What would you like to tell them? |
Don't talk about what you were. Talk about what you are becoming. |
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A meeting of minds is really a meeting of modules. |
A planner speaks with active verbs. |
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Talk does not change behavior. Practice changes behavior. |
Truth lies not in who says it but in who understands it. |
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Focus on what you can do. Your friends will tell you what you
can’t do. |
Do you think you’re who they say you are? |
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If you are lonely when you are alone, you are in bad
company. (Jean Paul Sartre) |
You can resent the wins of others. You can enjoy the wins of
others. Which choice do you make? |
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You must stand on solid ground before you can help another person up. |
It is usually easier to solve other
people’s problems.
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If you don’t have goals, other people will provide them.
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Learn from the mistakes of others. You don't have time to make them all
yourself. |
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The more you understand yourself, the more you understand other people.
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The more you understand other people, the more you understand yourself.
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If you follow in the footsteps of the wise ones, you will find only
footsteps. |
To find what the wise ones found, you must seek what they sought. |
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If you don' know where you're going, who will follow you? |
If you lend someone $20 and never see them again, it was probably
worth it. |
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The first sign of bad advice is that it starts with, "All you have to do
is..." |
You are your most important product. |
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Never compete with anyone but yourself. |
You will never live up to what you
think other people expect of you. |
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Can you see your competitor as a collaborator? |
Cooperation grows out of shared goals. |
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Even God can't please everybody. |
Leader's laws: Never do a job you can shunt off to someone else. |
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If you are bothered by what other people do, think back to
before you knew everything. |
Give away your ideas. Make room for
more. You know where to find them. |
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What do the other people like to do? |
Listen first. Then decide. |
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Look for people who have ideas about what they can do. |
Always get the delivery time from other people. |
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Always set a time to deliver and tell the other person. |
It is always better to have collaborators than competitors |
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Don't be the subject of your project. Be the verb. |
Don't worry about what's wrong with other people. Celebrate what's
right with you. |
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Those who resent your success would better spend their time on
competing. |
The secret of project management is getting good people on the job. |
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True arrogance is letting other people get the credit. |
Do not interfere when your adversary is digging himself into a hole. |
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Sin --a term used to condemn others without
taking responsibility for the condemnation. |
Luck -- the explanation for the success of other people. |
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"I'll pray for you." Religious term meaning "Don't expect any help
from me. " |
"Good luck." Secular term meaning "I'll pray for you." |
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You can get farther on concrete than you can on abstract. |
Ethics: 1. Do no evil. 2. Never let anyone else define evil. |
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Anger management: don't get mad. Get busy |
First law of marketing:
Make it easy for people to do what you want them to do. |
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The first question on any job: Do you know what the job really is? |
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10/29/2008 Copyright (c) D. F. Dansereau & S. H. Evans |
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